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Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Ma Durga...Aashchhe bachhor Abaar esho...

Kucho nimki, narkol naru, malpua, mansher ghughni, keemar shingara, mishti r thalaa, dhok dhok pronaam aar kolakuli.... the childhood memories of Bijoya are too vivid, more so gastronomically.

Days have changed, so my son, who is at least 98% clued on Bong was surprised to find, kucho nimkis are manufacturable in Mom's kitchen as well beside the Chittoranjan Park Sweet shops in Delhi.

So this time, while I prepared to embrace and entertain a large group of family, Mr D prepared for his France visit for an unavoidable workshop. Little sonny R, upset with his Dad's funny tour plans was trying to find solace in visiting paternal Grandparents from Kolkata.

Saptami was chaotic. My Mamashoshur( Husband's Mama) and family had planned a surprise for his sister.... they were visiting us. So even though I prepared a pick up for them from railway station, my in laws were completely in the dark. Even my ten year old son was party to the conspiracy. Chaos bloomed post lunch, I had to leave for an emergency client meeting, my guests could not find the car sent for the pick up, neither could the driver find the guest..... AMAZING. I retraced 45 km to pick them up after reaching back.... and the family chat continued till wee hours of 2am.

Ashtami colourful as usual.... other than me struggling to keep a backup khichuri and accompaniments ready in case we miss the bhog at the pandal. On puja days in Gurgaon pandals, since we always end up behind 1000 at least, a backup plan is an absolute must. Afternoon, in true Bong way, we stuffed ourselves in a hired Toyota Innova and struggled our way through the terrible highway traffic to reach New Delhi Kali bari. Long travel, fights on right AC cooling, and finally we end up standing behind serpentine cues for a glimpse of the Goddess and the happening arati. Thousands were already sitting on the huge mandir courtyard waiting for Kumar Shanu to begin his performance. Terrified of the crowd, and asphyxation we finally plunge out and breathe well before locating a chaatwallah. Soft and crispy aalu chaat and spicy churmur we all had to our heart's content before reaching airport to pick up Mr D.

Navami we packed fast and quick and once again stuffed ourselves in two cars and left for a Jaipur Ajmer Pushkar trip. The days passed off in a whizzzzz.... and on Monday 3 am we came back home, almost crawling back.

House is still full, 24 hours, we are chirping and laughing with family, a rare incident compared to me and little sonny R walking back slowly,into an empty apartment, loaded with school bag, creche bag, Kumon hamper, laptop, a huge loaded purse and an equally cumbrous food tote bag....and getting prepared for the next day.

Me and little sonny R are not seeing eye to eye fearing the magic would go off and once more we would get slotted into the routine life.


Sandeepa said...


Shubho Bijoya janai tomader shobai ke. Toamr Pujo to heavvy keteche, shunei mon ta bhalo lagche.Porei na puro bari bhorti lok imagine korte parchi. Hugs to R, I know how he will miss them, same happens at my home too

Ekta request ache please, tumi DMC te ei article tar link diyecho, please re-post korbe at DMC as in just copy-paste. Just mention that you are sharing it.

Actually ami anyader shobai ke boli to reproduce the article in entirety at DMC, tai bollam, kichu mone koro na.

Mallika said...

Shubho Bijoya - lovely to read your post - whimsical,fast paced and PACKED ! I like that bit about not looking each other in the eye for fear the magic will vanish - we do the same too !

bird's eye view said...

Sounds like you had a great time. By the way, it's interesting that you're in advertising - I was in the same mad business, some time ago.

Double-Dolphin said...

oooooff!!! BWM, ekta okhkhor edik odik holei daaroon byapar. i love the kucho nimki my mom makes, better than that packed nonsense that you get these days. but there's only one problem with the stuff mum makes, it usually doesn't last for more than one hour.

i love manghshor shingara, but then i have to wait till i go to my maashir baari for it. have to call in advance and ask her to make it and all. can you buy mangshor shingara from anywhere other than monginis?